Fitting In and BelongJune 19, 2007
Some of us are born with the gift to fit in wherever they go. Some of us, have to try very hard to fit in. We ignore our preference, our likings, just for the sake of getting the others’ attention, so they turn towards us, talk to us, notice us, and acknowledge us as one of them. we will live in this state of denial about our real self just so we belong to the group. Most of the times, we are happy that these people ‘like us’, but there are times, we just want to world to disappear so we can be our true self even for just one minute. But we have been pretending that this is our true self for so long, that even the lies now has all seems real. and when finally reality hit, that we are never one of them, we are just pretending we are, all that is left is us, and our own selves. we can never fit in and belong even if we try forever, because it’s just not for us. we don’t belong to the people we want to belong, we belong the the people we are destined to belong.
“At the end of the day, there are some things you just can’t help but talk about. Some things we just don’t want to hear, and some things we say because we can’t be silent any longer. Some things are more than what you say, they’re what you do. Some things you say cause there’s no other choice. Some things you keep to yourself. And not too often, but every now and then, some things simply speak for themselves. ”
~ life alone sucks, but life with heartbreakers and traitors sucks even more~