i’m 25 years old …

another day had passed. two days actually. suddenly i’m 25 years old. time passes without we realize it. i am very thankful to those bunch of frens who, by the way, never forget my existence. they celebrated my birthday on the day i most don’t want to celebrate (who wanted to be reminded that they are a day older heheh ..) anyway, i love them. thanks for those cakes, they were delicious (of course …). and those wishes and cards as well. i love my frens.

the thing about birthday is that it reminded us that we are a day older. for children and teenagers  it’s a good sign because they don’t have to listen to all those “you can’t do this” or “you should do that” or “you have to pass the exams so that” (or so they think because parents are still going to say those things even when the children are already 47 years old, they’ll give advice and restrictions as long as we are their children, their blood).  For the veterans, it’s like a reminder that the house is already shoo shoo them away, while the grave is calling “come here, come here”. for us in our 20s, it’s a reminder that we are another day closer to becoming another species of the 30s. there’s nothing wrong with aging actually, it’s just that our hormones are telling us that we are old, and haven’t yet achieved everything that we are supposed to achieve at this age. for example, marriage, or at the very least, a boyfriend.

i am 25 years old, single, unattached, uncommitted, enjoying my freedom to the max. people won’t think of it as an achievement. i guess as long as i live in this society of “women’s place should be in the kitchen”, people would never recognize that at 25 i am considerably a good achiever. i have a good career, loving friends and family, enough savings, probably my own house in another 2 or 3 years time, my credit record has always been excellent, no debt currrently (except for last month credit card expanses). i think i’m doing very well. i just don’t have a husband yet. but 25 is such a young age and i don’t think i’m ready. i’m not yet that very domestically equipped, so, i’ll just enjoy my singleness for the moment. i’m happy.

anyway, thank you for those birthday wishes. and those many happy returns, long live aimimi, as well as the ”may you find your true love soon”. i hope soon (for a boyfriend) but not so soon (for a husband).

thank you wolrd. I AM NOW 25 YEARS OLD.

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when are you getting married?

several possible answers :

1) shut up. it’s none of your business.

2) when i got asked.

3) when the time come

4) bila sampai seru

5) when i have enough money

6) when i find the man i like and he likes me back and he wants to marry me.

7) let my parents find me a husband/wife candidate.

nobody wants me.

9) wait, i’m not yet ready.

10) what? i studied for years to get a good job and u’re asking me when am i getting married? are u out of your mind? i’m not getting married yet, not until all of those years studying begin to finally pay off.

11) i don’t want to get married, forever. end of story.

12) i already got the date but no suitable candidate is appearing yet.

13) i have the date, but the yaer is to be determined later.

14) he doesn’t want me!

15) i’ll wait for those more senior and older then me get married first.

16) aku belum jumpe lagi lekai yang cukup baik untuk aku..

17) nanti-nantilah … nak sponsor ke? nak kawen dengan aku tak?

my man must …

my man must :

1) know how to fix a car – any kind of problem : low/dead battery, puncture tyres, accident procedure, broken glass, anything, u name it, he can fix it

2) know how to do plumbing job – leaking pipes, unfunctioning sink, anything

3) know all carpentary skills – fix a broken bed, sofa, coffee table etc

4) know how to cook, preferably, DELICIOUSLY as i’m not a very good cook

5) know basic medication / emergency first aid sort of thing – how to treat cuts, burns, headache, stomache, pimples ..

huhu .. he must be mr perfect .. guess it will be forever til i find him .. or he found me ..

meja bersepah giler

tengok blog cachah tadi. kemasnya meja kerja beliau. meja kerja aku, huh … bersepah macam aper je. malas betul nak kemas. banyak sangat mende nye. nak shred, shredder rosak. bertimbun la atas tu je.

sekian, ini je yang sempat aku tulis kali ini.

to play or not to play

if you play with fire, you’ll get burned

if you play with water, you’ll get drowned

if you play with air, you’ll get choked

if you play with soil, landslide!

if you play with some other people’s husband/fiancee/boyfriend, you’ll :

   1) get nothing

   2) get him to marry you in the end

   3) probably get yourself a ‘madu’ (honey is not always sweet ok ..)

   4) get acid thrown in your face

   5) get a mad housewife to quarrel with you in the public ( you know, the hair-pulling scene)

nothing of it seems like nice consequences, right? but if we don’t play, life won’t be fun. and life is (to quote something from RafiqaHazuraRina’s blog) too short to do nothing. so what the heck, get out there and have fun. BUT REMEMBER .. ‘Kau Buat Kau Tanggung La’ …

(p/s pernah jugak ader short-lived affair with someone’s boyfriend, but being me, i felt guilty and decided to break up. it was not a wonderful experience)